PROVERBS 5 WOMAN

Hello Lovelies,

After speaking to a few people on Twitter and elsewhere thought to share my thoughts on PROVERBS 5 which is very important for men especially, for when they approach women and what is right and wrong behaviour.. And to link it in with how a GOD FEARING, GOOD WOMAN OF GOD should be.

The Peril of Adultery

5 My son, pay attention to my wisdom;
Lend your ear to my understanding,
That you may preserve discretion,
And your lips may keep knowledge.
For the lips of an immoral woman drip honey,
And her mouth is smoother than oil;
But in the end she is bitter as wormwood,
Sharp as a two-edged sword.
Her feet go down to death,
Her steps lay hold of hell.
Lest you ponder her path of life—
Her ways are unstable;
You do not know them.

Therefore hear me now, my children,
And do not depart from the words of my mouth.
Remove your way far from her,
And do not go near the door of her house,
Lest you give your honor to others,
And your years to the cruel one;
10 Lest aliens be filled with your wealth,
And your labors go to the house of a foreigner;
11 And you mourn at last,
When your flesh and your body are consumed,


12 And say:
“How I have hated instruction,
And my heart despised correction!
13 I have not obeyed the voice of my teachers,
Nor inclined my ear to those who instructed me!
14 I was on the verge of total ruin,
In the midst of the assembly and congregation.”

15 Drink water from your own cistern,
And running water from your own well.
16 Should your fountains be dispersed abroad,
Streams of water in the streets?
17 Let them be only your own,
And not for strangers with you.
18 Let your fountain be blessed,
And rejoice with the wife of your youth.
19 As a loving deer and a graceful doe,
Let her breasts satisfy you at all times;
And always be enraptured with her love.
20 For why should you, my son, be enraptured by an immoral woman,
And be embraced in the arms of a seductress?

21 For the ways of man are before the eyes of the Lord,
And He ponders all his paths.
22 His own iniquities entrap the wicked man,
And he is caught in the cords of his sin.
23 He shall die for lack of instruction,
And in the greatness of his folly he shall go astray.

 

PROVERBS 5 is very powerful for the main reason that it acts like a stern warning to men in particular and a wakeup call if u like to make them realise the women they are either with, the women they approach or have been with and may have to avoid being with such women again. ‘My son, pay attention to my wisdom; lend your ear to my understanding.’

LOOKS…

Men, do not always be quick to make decisions on a woman simply because you get carried away by how good she looks, not every woman who looks good has a pure, clean spirit and the spirit of LUST is very much alive amongst most of you and u need to pray to break that cycle of falling for looks then onto the next etc..

Looks will fade with time but a personality and their relationship with God will be everlasting and it’s not every time the good looks matches a woman who is God fearing. A woman can be good looking but doesn’t know God or even know what it means to be a God fearing woman.. Some have asked but why God fearing women? The answer is simple God fearing women have the right qualities to build a home and not simply just enter a relationship with you and not put the work in, we know how to support the man, how to care for him and encourage him in his way to greatness, help him, pray for him, be more than a help mate but a best friend too..

You see when you place a God fearing woman next to a normal woman you will realise soo many things you may not have realised but is also very important..

God should be INVOLVED in everything in our lives after all did He not create life, the Heaven and earth and everything you see around you??? So why would you not want a woman after God’s heart who will not lead you to death but to eternity, which will not lead you to destruction but help you to greatness?? Look below at some of the differences in a woman of God and a normal woman. I say normal because being a woman of God lifts you higher you are no longer a mere human being but a special daughter of God, you have that title and have claimed it.

 

A GOOD LOOKING GOD FEARING WOMAN

  • Involves God in everything
  • Supports her partner
  • Prays for him
  • Reads the Bible with him
  • Encourages him
  • Helps him achieve his dream
  • Speaks wisdom into his life
  • Spends time with him
  • Stays faithful and honest with him
  • Doesn’t put him down
  • If he’s lost helps him find God

SHE IS ABLE TO DO ALL THIS BECAUSE SHE IS A WOMAN OF GOD AND KNOWS RIGHT FROM WRONG AND THE GOD SHE SERVES..

 

A GOOD LOOKING NORMAL WOMAN

  • Will want to go clubbing/drinking
  • Feed of your wealth
  • Leads you to sinning (e.g Fornication)
  • Doesn’t involve God in your relationship
  • Unstable with no sense of direction Her ways are unstable;
  • Doesn’t always do what is right
  • Suggests being open to sex buddies.
  • Not always trustworthy
  • Flaunts her body around
  • Uses her body to entice men

20 For why should you, my son, be enraptured by an immoral woman,
And be embraced in the arms of a seductress;

And her mouth is smoother than oil;
But in the end she is bitter as wormwood,
Sharp as a two-edged sword.
Her feet go down to death,
Her steps lay hold of hell
Lest you ponder her path of life—
Her ways are unstable;
You do not know them.

 

Already you begin to see the major differences, now you may not agree with some of these points but I say this being a God fearing woman and can relate to it from that point of view along with also seeing things around from women who claim to know God but act the complete opposite. Be very careful how you speak about God you may mock people but never get comfortable in mocking God it will never work in your favour, as He sees everything you and I do.

IMMORAL BEHAVIOR

For the lips of an immoral woman drip honey,
And her mouth is smoother than oil;
But in the end she is bitter as wormwood,

Remove your way far from her,
And do not go near the door of her house,
Lest you give your honor to others…

 

Immoral behaviour takes you away from God and the devil sees this and will manipulate you and step into that gap which will allow him use your weakness against you. You will think you are living the life (the wrong way) but the consequences to follow will not be good. Anything that God is not involved in, any sort of sin will not work in your favour and the consequences to follow will take you backwards in life rather than forward. Which means you could have been close to your breakthrough but because you decided to live a sinful way instead lost out on it and took yourself back to square one of having to struggle, when it could have all been given freely to you. You missed out on your long term blessings for temporary pleasures. Because each time you commit a sin you are taking yourself away from God and closer to the devil as God does not like sin but a clean righteous hand.

It’s worse if you know you are sinning and continue to sin, a person who is aware of sinning, gets comfortable in it and refuses to change cannot call themselves a genuine child of God because a child of God will never partake in actions that go against God and think it is okay, such as

  • Adultery
  • Fornication
  • Lying
  • Cursing
  • Lust
  • Envy
  • Pride
  •  

Find a good God fearing woman who will lead you away from sinful nature in darkness to God in lightness and the blessings He has for each and every one of us. Because a life of darkness away from God doesn’t bring forth goodness, blessings, success, eternal life, growth and all the beautiful things a life with God in control has to offer. God should never be the one you chose to turn away from, He gave you life, He gave His only son to die for our sins so that you and I may have life I just don’t understand how people can still mock and do wrong against God having known all He has done. WHY DO WRONG AGAINST GOD AND NOT CARE??

Please please please in life if there’s one thing you should do, is to continually work daily on your relationship with God and not destroy your future by continuous sinful intentional acts.. Don’t get sucked into a life of your own rules and dismiss a life God has created for you, to be the best and have the best. Rome wasn’t built in a day and success and growth didn’t happen overnight. Determination, courage and positivity are a good start.

Work on bettering yourself and your life and with that you will also attract a good stable woman who accepts you and is willing to be by your side to do things jointly and under God’s guidance the best and only way. She won’t be attracted by the material things you have because she sees you for you and that is enough for her.

PROVERBS 5 SUMMARY POINTS.

JUST REMMEBER WHAT DOES NOT INVOLVE GOD WILL NEVER WORK NO MATTER HOW HARD YOU TRY..

 

SINNING LEADS TO DESTRUCTION AND DESTRUCTION LEADS TO HELL FIRE.. DO NOT BE NAIVE INTO THINKING THAT YOU CAN ENJOY LIFE TODAY AND TOMORROW YOU WILL CHANGE.. EVERY ACTION LEADS TO A CONSEQUENCE..

 

GOD CANNOT AND NEVER WILL BE MOCKED BEST BELIEVE THAT..

 

DO NOT DEPART FROM GAINING WISDOM AND KNOWDEGE IT CAN HELP YOU NOW AND WILL HELP YOU IN YOUR FUTURE..

GET TO KNOW SOMEONE WELL ENOUGH TO KNOW IF THEY ARE GENUINE MEN OR WOMEN OF GOD AND IF SO YOU HAVE A POTENTIAL KEEPER, IF NOT LEAVE.. DARKNESS AND LIGHTNESS DOESNT MIX

 

DO NOT CHASE FLESH AND LET THE SPIRIT DIE.. FEED TE SPIRIT AND KILL THE FLESHLY DESIRES..

 

TAKES NOTE OF INSTRUCTIONS AND FOLLOW WITH OBEDIENCE.

 

THE LOVE OF A GENUINE, GOD FEARING WOMAN OF GOD IS FAR BETTER THAN THE UNFULFILED LOVE OF A NORMAL WOMAN AND THOSE WOMEN WHO LIVE SINFUL WAYS AND TEMPT YOU TO LIVE SUCH LIVES TOO.

 

ONE GOOD GOD FEARING WOMAN WITH THE WHOL PACKAGE IS WORTH SOO MUCH MORE THAN MANY WOMEN LEADING YOU TO SIN, AS YOU SUFFER THE CONSEQUENCES.

 

MEN ARE WEAKER THAN WOMEN AND SO NEED PRAYER AND GOD’S INTERVENTION TO HELP THEM THROUGH.

 

DO NOT LET SIN DESTROY YOU, YOU STILL HAVE A FUTURE TO SEE..

 

GOD HAS DONE WAY TOOOOO MUCH FOR US ALL FOR YOU TO THINK ITS OKAY TO  PUT SIN BEFORE HIM, USE PEOPLE AND BRING GOD’S NAME INTO YOUR MESS..

 

REPENT AND LIVE RIGHT, GOD IS FAR GREATER THAN EVERYONE AROUND YOU, AS FOR ME I FEAR GOD AMD IF YOU DO TO YOU WILL ALWAYS PRAY AND WORK ON YOUR BEST TO LIVE RIGHT..

 

GOD BLESS YOU ALL

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