PROVERBS 24:3- ‘Through wisdom is a house built and by understanding it is established.’ The THREE important factors to keep in mind are UNDERSTANDING, KNOWLEDGE AND WISDOM. Attitude too is everything and knowing how to handle you in situations..
Also important to keep in mind is MATTHEW 7: 24-27 to build your house on the rock. ‘Everyone then who hears these words of mine and does them will be like a wise man who built his house on the rock. And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house, but it did not fall, because it had been founded on the rock. And everyone who hears these words of mine and does not do them will be like a foolish man who built his house on the sand. And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell, and great was the fall of it.’ IS YOUR MARRIAGE GOING TO BE ONE BUILT ON A ROCK OR ON SAND?? PROCLAIM THAT YOUR MARRIAGE WILL BE A MARRIAGE OF DIFFERENCE.
UNDERSTANDING THE MYSTERY OF A GLORIOUS MARRIAGE.
Isaiah 34:16 ‘Seek ye out of the book of the Lord, and read: no one of these shall fail, none shall want her mate: for my mouth it hath commanded, and his spirit it hath gathered them.’
Marriage is not difficult, but when the word is abandoned and the devil has his way through the back door anxiety will become an issue for you and your spouse. To be thrown of course to take you away from the Most High’s plan from the beginning to put you both in a worse of situation the Most High wouldn’t want for you. That is why it is so important to rely on the word and prayer, to avoid being mislead away from the Most High into a pit the devil dug up for you and threw you into.
Genesis 1:26 Then God said, ‘Let us make mankind in our image, in our likeness, so that they may rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky, over the livestock and all the wild animals, and over all the creatures that move along the ground.’
The Most High made man in HIS own image; HE created man to continue His work on earth to impact the world with greatness. But the enemy took that ability away and until now still tries to afflict Christians in all ways possible whether through people or situations, remember the enemy doesn’t go on leave, everyday he will try to fight you.
In Genesis 2:18 The Lord God said, ‘It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.’ Therefore man should not be alone, but should have his very own help mate suitable for him, his missing rib to enjoy a fruitful ordained marriage by The Most High. To accomplish the purpose of marriage between them, leading to having children. Who will carry their name, for many generations to come.
Sadly many people get married but in the marriage there is no PURPOSE and FULFILMENT. It is simply enough to say that they are married but there is nothing to show for it, other than two people who are JUST married.
Our destinies at times can seem hard to fulfil and to gloriously keep it going, but more importantly with our assignments it is important to keep the Most High at the centre of it all, pray, read and believe with faith that is well. The Most High is not moved by our emotions NO!! But rather interested in those who keep His assignment. So see yourself achieving what the HE has placed in your life as your divine purpose and put it into practice. You may not get it right at first and that is where the word will help motivate and push you. In Christianity we are assured of His love for us and the Bible is full of His promises to us, but if you’re not doing anything in the kingdom of the Most High how then can you be assured of anything?
>>>>>>> Matthew 6:38 Matthew 6:33 ‘But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.’ <<<<<<<<
There needs to be assurance and the Most High needs to be the foundation, your main focus. The woman and the man should have the Most High first in all that they do. For love that has no assignment with the Most High kept first will fail, and such love has no purpose, but rather the worldly soul ties of sin.
THE MAN AND WOMAN MUST BE ONE WITH THE MOST HIGH, THERE IS NO OTHER WAY.
SO again if He is not first in your lives, it will not work, people are always quick to want to take shortcuts forgetting that where the Most High is absent NOTHING WORKS. The number one message to keep close is to always focus your abilities on Him and everything that happens in your home. When you look within you should be able to see the Most High in all areas of your life. Wrap your marriage in the word of the Most high, make time for each other to read the word, pray and attend church together. Psalm 119: 89 ‘For ever, O Lord, thy word is settled in Heaven.’
MARRIAGE = THE WORD OF THE MOST HIGH WRITTEN OUT IN TWO PEOPLES LIVES.
Isaiah 55:11 ‘So is my word that goes out from my mouth: It will not return to me empty, but will accomplish what I desire and achieve the purpose for which I sent it.’ The word of the Most High is what is in you that helps you overcome all storms that come your way. You will overcome and never lose, simply because when storms come you will labour and put the Most high first. Instead of putting others and things of the world.
MARRIAGE= MOST HIGH CENTRED RELATIONSHIP, WITH AN ASSIGNMENT TO FULFIL, TO LEAVE ALL YOUR ASSURANCE IN THE MOST HIGH.
Deuteronomy 7:14 ‘you shall be blessed above all peoples. There shall not be male or female barren among you or among your livestock.’
2 Corinthians 6:14 Warning Against Idolatry:
Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?
Back to this scripture again, it is very important when dealing with relationships and marriage. When you remove the Most High, from it you have no security, never ever allow anyone to take your eyes of the Most high. Marriage is a covenant right with the Most High and so needs Him to be present in every single area of it or else it will not survive, hence why many marriages fail nowadays. Do not put your testimony in the hands of man only the Most High.
Our futures are all in the Bible, read it to find it and understand the importance of things that happen in our lives, feed the spirit daily and practice what is written.
MARRIAGE= A LEGACY LOCKED UP INSIDE YOU, AND THAT IS WHY THE ENEMY TRIES TO DESTROY YOU AND THE MARRIAGE KNOWING THAT IF HE EVER SUCCEEDS IN DOING SO, WILL BE KILLING MANY GERNARIONS TO COME.
DELAY IS NOT DENIAL
Hebrews 10: 35- 36 ‘So do not throw away your confidence; it will be richly rewarded. You need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God, you will receive what he has promised.’
THE DEVIL CREATES:
THOUGHTS OF GIVING UP
DIVIDE BETWEEN YOU AND THE MOST HIGH
JUSTIFICATION OF SIN
A DARK WORLD
The devil can push you into a pit, when he sees that you are expectant of something and it is not happening at your own timing. But always always stay focused on the Most high no matter how hard it is at the time. It will all come to pass in His timing not ours and that is the test of our patience and faith, the devil tries to rob us off. WE WILL ALWAYS WIN BECAUSE WE STAY FOCUSED ON THE MOST HIGH, DO WHAT IS RIGHT AND HAVE THE ASSURANCE IT WILL HAPPEN.
SOME IMPORTANT THINGS TO ALSO KEEP IN MIND
When you give up being with a guy to focus on the Most high, He will give you the right one, not only the best for you but the one who will never make you regret leaving the guy to focus on the Most High.
· Willing to be led by the Most High (Godly counsel)
· The leader of the home/The man not woman should be leading
· Be humble enough to be led in all areas of his life and his marriage (No pride)
· Calm not one with anger and fast to react
· Loves wholeheartedly
· Reflection of the Most high in him
· Proverbs 31 woman
· Wise wife builds a home, a foolish one will break a home
· Speaks wisdom
· Speaks words of healing
· The word of the Most High will be her guide.
A DIVIDED HOME WILL NOT BE OUR PORTION AT ALL. SO A LOT OF THINGS AND ESPECIALLY THEIR SPIRITUAL RELATIONSHIP WITH THE MOST HIGH WILL NEED TO BE TAKEN INTO ACCOUNT BEFORE THE BIG STEP OF MARRIAGE.
· CAN YOU LIVE WITH THEIR PAST AND ACCEPT IT? BECASUE THE PAST IS EQUALLY IMPORTANT TO AVOID ANY SURPISES OR UNNANOUNCED SECRETS POPPING UP.
· SELF EXAMINATION IS A GREATEST QUALITY IN CHRISTIANITY TO PARTAKE IN.
· FLEE ALL APPREARANCES OF EVIL.
· DO NOT GET INTO SITUATIONS WHERE YOU LATER HAVE TO EXPLAIN YOURSELF.
THANK YOU ALL FOR READING
Most High bless you all