We can all agree that temptation is everywhere and the society thrives on it, whether financially or not, the media also has a big part to play in it. People see the half naked men and women revealing what should be hidden, scandalous behaviour being embraced and degrading actions of fellow men and women around us. Thinking it is okay to be part of this ‘movement.’
I have noticed a lot of these things over some time now and in such society for the majority, when single it will be used an excuse to have fun, party, have countless ‘sex buddies’ ‘friends with benefits’ you name it. Whether you meet them at the club, or on social media, it is all gone about the wrong way.
To the ladies this applies to, encouraging this messed up behaviour doesn’t bring forth good results and finding comfort in the wrong things and wrong people is not worth it. Many seek attention and that sense of false love, they aren’t patient or have enough self love to wait and do things the right way. Now some may say I am looking into this too deeply, but as much as I stand by what I am saying, I still believe that even though it may just be fun to them. At some point in their lives they will look back either ashamed or with regret for their actions. There are always consequences that follow such actions.
‘CANT LIVE A LIFE EVERYONE IN THE WORLD IS LIVING- IT WILL ONLY LEAD TO THAT NARROW PATH OF DESTRUCTION..’
SINGLENESS & SEX:
The sad thing about this generation is that everything that is wrong and degrading is indulged in and given easily. Most people no longer want to respect morals and values, they just want the thrill of easy living and fun but eventually all this will come at a cost. What is given freely and easily never lasts, the same way you got it and them easily is the same way you can lose it and them. Never think that in these types of ways you’re the only one benefiting from what is given easily.
At times I look at social media and how some of the women degrade themselves with no class. That is never the right way to get attention and what is revealed for all to see, loses its worth and shows the woman may not have much to give. Because she is easily sharing it for all to see, showing that of having such low standards. One thing I always say is that a woman, who can easily give it to you, can as well give it out to others. Then happens the vicious cycle of trust issues and messing around, not caring for the genuine people who do right, but get caught up in the mess.
People take no pride in relationships anymore in treating their partner (ONE PERSON, NOT ONE PERSON AND OTHERS) with love and respect. They prefer to have fun, sex buddies, live care free, cheat and avoid catching feelings with no strings attached. Most will show interest but for the wrong reasons, for sex and not to be loved or to have someone love them the right way. Using each other for their own benefits, because really that is what it is about using others to get what you want, the easy way.
As opposed to the single lifestyle, relationships that are rare to some extent are meant to be a joint union, of two people growing in love, together with the Most High at the centre of it all. More times now, there are two people in a relationship, with one of them if not both entertaining side people with no good reason or good intentions. Some aren’t content with relationships being one on one, but will still get into them for various reasons:
- Not wanting to be alone
- The attention from that person
- The sex part which usually as soul ties holds some relationships together…..
- Not wanting to seem easy so getting into it, to seem stable. By being with one person who shares the same desires as them..
Let’s face it not everyone wants to put in the commitment and work to make relationships grow. Some say it is hard work and things and people given easily is what they prefer less work.
I talk from experience, I have had guys approach me trying their luck and not getting far. Even though they know I set standards as a Christian woman. Some still felt they could break me and have their way, YES they were blunt, whilst others played it discreetly at first. I remember a few saying they give up on me because I was ‘hard work’ and they were impatient and didn’t want to work to get me. Now I laughed at that for three reasons one it showed me how some guys are and what to watch out for, two women of the Most High to some are seen as a threat, to those who mainly want fun and not the work of keeping a woman of the Most high. Three these same guys will be the same ones insulting easy women and their ways. Yet are the same ones encouraging their behaviour, crazy right?
Such didn’t bother me and until now, hasn’t because when you know who you are in Christ you cannot be shaken the good and the bad will come but the SPIRIT OF DISCERNMENT is always in my favour. You can be a good woman or man but that doesn’t mean you won’t have the bad ones coming to also try their luck with you. LIKE I ALWAYS SAY LADIES KNOW YOUR WORTH AND WAIT ON YOUR BOAZ NOTHING LESS.. THE WORLD CANNOT OFFER YOU HIM ONLY THE MOST HIGH.. THE IMMORALITY IN THE WORLD IS NOT OUR PORTION.
IN A GENERATION LIKE THIS THE IMPORTANCE OF WAITING FOR YOUR BOAZ AND ABSTAINING FROM SEX MUST BE DONE THE RIGHT WAY, AND CAN BE DONE. PEOPLE ACT LIKE ABSTAINING FROM SEX IS HARD, THAT IS WHERE YOU MUST SEEK THE MOST HIGH, PRAY FOR STRENGTH AND HAVE FAITH. IT WILL BE DONE IN YOUR LIFE AND YOU CAN GET THE BEST. WHAT YOU GIVE OUT YOU WILL RECEIVE REMEMBER THAT.
‘IF YOU ARE SERIOUS AND SEEK THE MOST HIGH, AND HE SAYS DONT MOVE, DONT GO TO THAT PERSON, WAIT. U HAVE TO BE HEADSTRONG TO KNOW RIGHT FROM WRONG, ABD MOVE WITH PATIENCE.
If intimacy is a must and they don’t want to follow the word the decision to cut ties will be easy. Because you know your worth and will not settle for less, a relationship that is pure will overcome all as opposed to a relationship that is unclean..
‘I feel that in a world like this, temptation is everywhere and if you’re not strong enough you will always fall victim to it..’
SOME OF THE DOWNFALLS OF SINGLENESS IN THE WORLD:
- TRANSMITTED DISEASES
- DRUNKEN BEHAVIOUR/ CARELESS LIFESTYLES ETC
- YOUNG SINGLE MOTHERS/YOUNG SINGLE FATHERS
- UNWANTED PREGNANCIES
- BROKEN HOMES.
- GOSSIPING/ PRYING ON OTHER PEOPLES BUSINESS
ABSTINCENCE IS THE MOST HIGH’S WAY OF SAVING LIVES, PROTECTING INNOCENT BABIES, AVOIDING SEXUAL DISEASES AND GIVING SEXUAL RELATIONS ITS PROPER VALUE FOR WHAT HONORS THE MOST HIGH THE RIGHT WAY.
ECCLESIASTES 4:7-8 ‘Then I returned, and I saw vanity under the sun. There is one alone, and there is not a second; yea, he hath neither child nor brother: yet is there no end of all his labour; neither is his eye satisfied with riches; neither saith he, For whom do I labour, and bereave my soul of good? This is also vanity, yea, it is a sore travail.’
Doing things that have no eternal reward and using your time with worldly things, of no value. Do not just focus on you and your wrong desires that is vanity. Pray to the Most High to help change you because such paths only lead to destruction.
Which also relates to 1 TIMOTHY 4:1-3 ‘NOW the Spirit speaketh expressly, that in the latter times some shall depart from the faith, giving heed to seducing spirits, and doctrines of devils; Speaking lies in hypocrisy; having their conscience seared with a hot iron; Forbidding to marry, and commanding to abstain from meats, which God hath created to be received with thanksgiving of them which believe and know the truth.’
Satan is very crafty and this world is its playground, be careful to not fall victim of it, ending up in you distancing yourself from the Most High. All that is in the world is all temporary and evil, all that you need and want can be found in Christ. Know who it is you’re serving either the Most High or the devil.
BOYFRIEND/ GIRLFRIEND TITLES:
Q WHERE IN THE BIBLE DOES IT SPEAK OF HAVING GIRLFRIENDS AND BOYFRIENDS/ TESTING ‘POTENTIAL SEXUAL PARTNERS’ THE IDEA OF SLEEPING WITH DIFFERENT PEOPLE AND OR GETTING INTO A RELATIONSHIP TO SEE IF THEY SATISFY YOU BEFORE MARRIAGE IS ALL WRONG, BUT SADLY MANY PARTICIPATE IN SUCH.
BUT RATHER IN…. 1 CORINTHIANS 7:2-5 ‘Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.’ (FORNICATION BEFORE MARRIAGE IS A SIN, BUT IN MARRIAGE IS A GIFT, WORLDLY LIFESTYLES GO AGAINST THE WORD)..
Most people value sex more than relationships, when you are spiritually connected with someone it goes beyond things of the world hobbies, interests etc.
A temporary pleasure to please the flesh is all worldly and sinful, true love is eternal and feeds the spirit daily. Fleshly desires causes one to sin against the Most high, and with sex in such relationships doesn’t always guarantee marriage. Because relationships based on sex doesn’t lead to a lifetime of happiness- The Most High is absent from such and its a life of darkness.
‘DO NOT FIND YOURSELF LIVING IN THE NOW OF TEMPORARY SATISFACTION- FORGETTING THERE IS A FUTURE AHEAD..’ In this generation most women look for love the wrong way and find sex, whereas men look for sex and find love..
All these ideologies are all man made yet what is from the Most High to follow, is made to be seen as punishment to us. When really the word is enough to save u from destruction, and even avoid future generations suffering.. For what is done now, may pass down to many generations to come, if changes aren’t made. Follow the word and the Most High, especially for repentance.
People live in the now and forget there’s a future ahead. Ask yourself how many of your past partners have u seen YOURSELF marrying and it never worked out?? Thank the Most High because He knew u deserved better, not what YOU thought was good based on worldly living, but what He is saving for you. Because a weak man, or a weak woman cannot handle a strong woman or a strong man of The Most High, so they resort to someone of less standards to have their way easily with them..
(NOT APPROPRIATELY DRESSED, BUT THE MESSAGE IS SOO TRUE)..