A guy or a woman can be the reason you did not reach your breakthrough at your appointed time. Don’t let what they say and do influence you to make you divert from the truth!!!


Look at 1 John 2:16-17: ‘For the world offers only the lust for physical pleasure, the lust for everything we see, and pride in our possessions. These are not from the Father. They are from this evil world. And this world is fading away, along with everything it craves. But if you do the will of God, you will live forever.’


It can be said the brain is the main sexual organ. When you look around in society and all you see are images of revealing bodies, sexual content, immorality on TV, inappropriate songs/videos along with the sinful lyrics and the pornography on the internet. It just goes to show what the brain takes in on a daily basis, for those who are weak, leading to consequences of lust. THE CONSEQUENCES FOR GIVING INTO TEMPTATION LASTS MUCH LONGER THAN THE ACTUAL ACTS THEMSELVES. THOSE FEW MOMENTS COULD POTENTIALLY END UP IN YEARS OF PAIN AND AFFLICTION. ALWAYS ASK IS IT WORTH IT???

NUTRITION That is why I mentioned before the importance of staying strong and praying to the Most High and seeking help from the word. You don’t have to face it alone and changes will be worth it, rather than the pain to follow from the foolish things. ‘Stay head smart and stay chaste in your bodies.’


ROMANS 1:24 ‘Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves’ (pray this doesn’t happen, repent).


Also it says in GALATIANS 5:16-18:This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh. For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would. But if ye be led of the Spirit, ye are not under the law.’


With long lasting relationships the reason why most last is because they have Christ at the centre of it all. They follow the principles to make it work. Until actual marriage, it is definitely best to continue to build on the foundation of the relationship, the friendship and the love. That is the strongest platform for you and your partner to build and grow on. We can all agree that physical attraction is important, but not the only important factor in a relationship. But above all being able to share interests, your faith, values etc is far more long lasting and worthy.

Sexuality is a gift from the Most High, BUT to be used and enjoyed responsibly and not just anyhow. Along with intimate friendships, but to be expanded on and shared the right way, to grow in daily.’

The flesh is indeed weak, but pray to the Most High to help you and make the right choices, with the right person.

As it shows in 1 JOHN 1:9: ‘If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.’

Yes people mess up, mistakes are made, regrets are then formed in the mind and you’re not proud of certain things you have done before. But do not carry the burden alone pour out your heart to the Most High and He will forgive you, not might forgive. But He will forgive you. So long as you genuinely repent of your mistakes, He will see your heart.

ROMANS 6:19 ‘I speak after the manner of men because of the infirmity of your flesh: for as ye have yielded your members servants to uncleanness and to iniquity unto iniquity; even so now yield your members servants to righteousness unto holiness.’

Being a born again Christian for example, enables us to be washed clean of our past sins; we are made completely new and different from before, no longer the same but better. Christ is capable to do soo much for you, more than you even realise. To be forgiven, you too must do things that you may find hard to do and have never done before. For example stopping whatever it is you know is wrong in Christ. Give your ALL to Him, say sorry and work on change. Let go of all fears and doubts, He alone knows your tomorrow and He will be with you every step of the way. Once He is the centre of it all you will never look back.




Love in the world is the complete opposite to love in Christ.. In the world material things and sin are loved more than anything of the Most High. It is like the Most High has been overshadowed by the world’s ways of living. What goes against the word of the Most High is practiced more.


Material things (E.g. Cars, houses, shoes, clothes, bags, gadgets…)




Celebrities (People are idolized)


1 JOHN 2:15

‘15 Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him.’



It is always important to surround your outer world with the things you value more in your inner world, most importantly in first place the Most High.

In the world, when someone wrongs you, and does something(s) you don’t approve of. They are automatically an enemy and all of a sudden thoughts of revenge come into play (gang wars, petty arguments leading to bigger things etc). All you have to do is watch the news to see all the madness happening around, lives lost for stupid things and disrespect being the new ‘cool’ way to act and be towards those who do you wrong.

Rather than be in the world to use worldly eyes and actions to settle things yourself. Why not step away from such and give your life to Christ to protect you and change you, to know and do better. A life lived in the world is a dead life. The Most High is absent from it and so it has no meaning.

But look at LUKE 6:27 ‘But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you.’

A COMPLETE OPPOSITE TO WHAT IS PRACTICED IN THE WORLD. 100% FACT IF THE WORLD EMBRACED CHRIST MORE AND ALL DIFFERENCES WERE SET ASIDE WE WOULD ALL LIVE IN A WORLD FULL OF HAPPINESS AND PEACE. BUT because it’s the devils playground there will never be peace, genuine happiness, rules for good etc. But rather what there is, is wars, no peace, no happiness, killings, divides you name it, it’s happening.


It is easy to love those who love you back, but harder to love those who hate you as previously mentioned (the world). But what should be remembered and taken into account is that, to love and to forgive goes hand in hand. From forgiveness comes great genuine love (Christ). To be able to forgive someone who’s hurt you, is to love them with the love of Christ within you. To be able to bless those who have wronged you and live in love does take a lot to do, but that doesn’t mean it cannot be done, it is possible (Christ).


‘THOUGH I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.’

  • LOVE requires your whole being
    • To give it away generously and wisely.
    • Share love with an open, pure heart
      • Respond from deep within your heart and not your mind/ ego.


Relationships on love and spirituality will lead you to be with someone special for a lifetime, not just for a short period of time.


As mentioned before sex is much more than just a physical act. There is also a physical aspect to it, which many people do not realize. We have a body and a soul, The Most high made sex and so the two souls unite when sex takes place. If we didn’t have souls it would simply be a physical act. Sex is a gift from the Most high for both husband and wife to enjoy in marriage to bring forth children. Here their souls are deeply connected as one coming together blessed in marriage.

BUT when people partake in sexual ways OUTSIDE of marriage, it no longer is about enjoying the gift The Most high created for marriage. It then becomes a sin against Him. ‘Flee from sexual immorality’ because all sins a man or woman commits are outside his or her body. Then those who sin sexually, sin against their own bodies. As a Christian especially there is nothing honourable or pleasing about sexual sin amongst the church.

1 CORINTHIANS 6:18-20‘Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God’s.’


When people have sex whether with different partners or in a relationship based on sex. They do not realize how deep the act actually is. When you engage in the act you are connecting spirits with the person you are doing it with. The person may have an unclean spirit, bad demonic things in their life and have a very bad character. You engage with them, you contact their spirit and you become unclean in a sin that goes against the Most High.


You simply do not know what the inner being of that person(s) is. It’s as though you are giving part of you to many, and getting back their unclean spirit in return. Then the cycle of impurity goes round and round in filth. Our bodies are not our own, so how do you think the Most High will feel, when He sees you constantly having sex with different people giving them the chance to enter freely??


The Most High designed our bodies as a spiritual act of worship.  YOU= SOUL AND BODY INTERTWINED, TO BE USED FOR HIS GLORY..  A lot of things in life that people feel are good and fun, are the things that have terrible consequences. Especially what is not valued and given out easily.


I read somewhere, along these lines that, you can either bow down to your feelings…. OR have your feelings bow down to the Lord. Either way your soul is what hangs in the balance of what you decide to do. Now I am sure many of you will never and have never thought of or even sold your bodies for sex. So then why would you keep selling your soul to others for sex??




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